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I love him but I am not happy with him anymore
hailey Kate
We've been together for almost nine years we lived together for 7 years till now but things are so wrong. We just fought because of attitude matter we couldn't understand each other and there is no give and take we broke up and separate a million times I cannot count it anymore for so many. He said he loved me so much but I don't feel it he couldn't even fight for me I was just fooled or I'm the one who is fooling my self, I wanted to leave him but there's a feeling inside on me that I couldn't. I am not happy with him anymore and it's getting worst now..I don't know what the real love is and if he really love me... there's a time that if we are fighting I'm not sleeping in our bed I'm sleeping in the floor and he is in our bed, So martyr and stupid as people say but I don't know what to do I love him so much and I feel that I cannot live without him but I am not happy anymore. I am emotionally battered,mentally stressed I don't know what to do. Please help what to do...
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Why do you say that you "love him so much"?
What were the reasons for separating "a million times"?
Hello.. I am in the exact same position as you.. We have a daughter and I can understand why you are feeling distressed.
We have been living together for 3 years, and the past 1.5 year has been awful. I am still trying to make this relationship work, but at times it comes to an extent that I cannot take it anymore.
I do love him and he does love me back.. Do not know what to do.. But now i am trying to be patient and stay stronng
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well u r not in love with him but u r scared to face the world alone.. i know the feeling... feeling of abandonment.. loss of self confidence... and loss of taking a stand u have been in this relationship for such a long time.. tht u dont find ur identity besides the relationship.. for you.. ur relationship is ur best identity... you have been fighting to be happy without him... but you r not trying to live life without him.. coz you r scared to face the world alone... now dont knw to how like a single... its not about him... its about you... m serious... you need a boost make some new friends.. try to have a new life and see how you will feel alive even without the relationship... the only fear we all fear to face is to end up alone and such fears make us live a compromise... u still stnd him coz u dont remember living life without misery seriously... this is my true self speaking.... stand up for ur self sweets... its not too late.. run away... from this place and start a life without insecurities....
i like ur comments
The improper grammar and the lack of care that is driving you to be so lazy as to not use the spell check that is built into your computer has assured me that you are too young to assume you anything about how this person feels. I'm not going to be so audacious and say that I can say anything about someone I have never met.
However, I can say that I am in love with someone that I am not happy with. I think it comes with time, even when you are writing a dissertation on a masterpiece there are only so many pages you can write without turning to criticism. Nothing looks the same after you know everything about it, and most of the time what you know is more prevalent in your mind either due to the recentness or because of the size of the impact.
Stay strong and do what you feel is right one day at a time.
night_orchid
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that doesn't sound very positive. Certainly there must be redeeming qualities in that person outweighing the bad or else what point is there to remain in such a relationship?
i know what its like, coz i was in the same situation. we broke up many times but i loved him too much that i could not live without him n got back together again n again. i tried so hard to hold on just to find out that things got worse n worse, it's more than fights. he started having the habits of blaming me all the time n insulting me, shouting n being so rude to me...i always find a way to forgive him coz i thought that he loves me..but he just took advantage of that n keep doing the same thing...im so hurt n that's when i found out he doesnt really love me anymore, how stupid i am...that's when im really over him, im scared to get back to him ever again.
u might think he still loves u coz he acts so when u're both not fighting but if he really loves u what's the point in making u unhappy in the first place...
that's not what u deserve...
love happens
i think that if he make you sleep on the floor after a fight and not hime that tells you a little about his chater.
Aastha, super like ur comment
Your comment is the best. Insecurity is an awful thing to recognise and fight. Being alone is something I had to deal with after 7 years of relationship, and it was the hardest thing to live through. And I though it was 'love'...you live and learn I suppose. Best of luck to everybody, who is going through the moment of raising your self confidence. Whatever you do, go and be with people.. with friends, or anybody who can support you.
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Amazing and true comment , i have been in this situation and really decided to be strong and run away .
i m in the same situation u are i love him but not happy anymore .. somrthing has to change but i m afraid , i have a dother ...don t know what to do ... i dont want to get started again ,, but i need a change in my life .. what is love ??/i can t say to him what i want he don t understand my needs but i love him .. i m a very passion person ,i m confuse also // what to do... go on or stopp here ??i need to be happy ..
cina-canela
Im going thru the same thing. Im married but never had a rligious wedding which is another one of his broken promises... we have a child but I feel like Im a single mom. He doesnt help out, he's changed so much... or maybe I just never got to know him well enough. We've been together for 8yrs (6 married) but since 4 yrs ago we've had so many problems... and since 8 months ago I just dont even want to be with him...he's hurt me with words and actions so much that I dont believe in him anymore...Im very confused I feel like I want him to leave but everytime he's left I miss him like crazy and I want hin back.
This is verrrrrrrry true!! As for me, Iam still trying to leave the bad
This is marriage.we fall in love and expect life to be what it is when we marry.with time emotions change priorities change, i feel the same but when i asked my husband whats going wrong he replied why do you want me to be the same person as i was when i married you then i had no responsibility now i have many you and kids! i love you thats why i want to give you, the best, for us, men emotions dont matter much as long as we see you all comfortable.The point is men are from mars women from venus, to us women love feelings emotions mean everything to men they dont, they expect us to belive that they love without saying it loud.All you women out there think again is it really worth quitting, just because you feel you are unhappy? you venture another relationship and that too will end up the same how many relationships are we going to experience.Lets face it there are other things to be happy about happiness of your kids, broken homes never raised happy children.
I feel the same way.... But we have kids and he says he cant live without me... I want to be loved by someone that treats me like a queen!
Broken homes can raise children. Takes extra work but possible
Its not fair for u to feel in that way, maybe its time to face reality,life must go on nomatter the circumstances are.we need to face the world.our children will understand as time goes.
thanks 4 helpng me m also hv same pblem i luv him sooooooooo mch
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U knw dear i was having the same prb as u..i lbed my bf whu z now my ex so much he always hurts .e at the end he strted ignoring me..i knw tht he was noe juust psing time but i cnt leave him bcoz i lve him so much deeply...i was madly in lv wid him.bt thn a time ce he left me...i stll lv him but if he dnt wnt me thn i cnt do anythng.if sumone z ignoring u thn u shd try to be strng enogh to leave them otherwise one day they qill leave u n then u vl regrey tht y dnt u leave thm frst
This is what happening to me, the same feeling. I have a son with him (3 years old) I don't feel happy with him even we have been in a relationship for 13 years.
I'm thousand miles away from my home. I have no friends but him...I love him but I'm not happy with him for years. I'm tired of being too strong and too patient.
Hope I'll be ready to make a change soon.
i think you are right. Im slightly in the same situation. I am also not happy with him. But i am scared to leave him because if i leave then hes going to find someone else to replace me. You were right about "we are scared to be alone", We been with that person for so long that we dont even recall how it feels to be alone and single.
p.s I dont even know what to do anymore.
it's a hard thing to deal with. I'm older with grown children but have a young at heart feel. I enjoy getting together with my friends and family but cannot enjoy one evening out with my husband. what starts as a nice evening ends up with us bitching each other for no reason, we can't hold a conversation. He works many hours and we have a comfortable home life, dinner is made when he gets home( I enjoy cooking for him)he watches tv and then he goes to bed, I join him hours later. I holiday without him, dance without him, drink without him. when the two of us are alone together it ends in disaster and I have become very unhappy, I don't fully blame him, I can be a ****. Lately I've wanted to just leave but we have a comfortable life...we don't really fight a lot, we really don't talk anymore. I'm not afraid of leaving and making a life for myself, I'm not sure if I'm the **** or he is???? We have had counselling and I quit...I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong but he never is wrong. I know my kids don't respect him fully and maybe they see what I don't. My family is against me leaving and 90% of the time im content.....but that 90% of the time he's at work or sleeping. Am I really fooling myself??? I'm here cause I can't get advice from family
I was in that very same position. We been together for 5 years and have a 5 month old. I realized he was never going to change. I was so scared to end things with him. It was very hard. He made it even harder when he begged me to give him another chance. I was really fed up with him and embarrassed by his actions. I am so much happier now. You just have to listen to your heart and time will make that hurt go away from the breakup. I honestly wouldn't go back if I had the chance. There are many other men out there that can treat you much better and truely make you happy.
I am in the same situation we have been together for 4 years,we have a baby but we fight all the time.I loved him do much but after all the things that happened I am not happy anymore and I don't know what to do.Each time we fight ,he talk about other girls that they would make him happy.He did me wrong too many times and I forgive him but he killed all my feelings .I am thinking about leaving too but I am scared .
parispink!
how does her lack of spell check or grammer make her anyless of a person.. i think you couldve kept those comments to yourself. which will inadvertantly make her depressed seeing as she's already in a insucure state. she needs to think about the pro's and con's in her relationship and if she isnt happy go with the longer list. or she can give him space away from her, to think and miss, and rebuild the scar that is being picked at everyday. she's feeling: loneliness incontentness, lack of luster for the relationship, inscurities, misery, frightening, baffeling, holding on to memories good and bad. its all of that wrapped in one and so much more. he probably built her up so far that he feels high and mighty and if she left him he would throw it in her face on how he made her and she wouldnt know how to take it because she grew so much in her life in 10 years that she believes his lies. she probably cant get out out of it because everytime she packs her bags he's right there at the door to grab her and tell her he'll change and do better, but he never does and he makes hisself sound so sincere and ginuwine.. i know because im in this relationship now.. she probably hopes and wishes one day he'll change for the best and he'll get it together. she probably think he'll let go of all his bad habits and grow up and be the MAN she always wanted because he has all the features she wished for as a little girl. but girl, 10 years? and it's still going on? and you know, i understand that people change over time or their attitudes i should say, and people get comfortable and think you'll always be there because you need him. but MORE THAN LIKELY she is the one supporting him. he sits at home with all the kids he wanted to make and does nothing now your here venting your feelings to strangers with no good advice and rude comments on a soft heart. i think you know what to do babe, because just writing this for you has taught me what i need to do with mine... i hope you feel better and ill keep checking on you to see your updates
if you know your feel unhappy anymore to him don't stock
your self in only one place that you know there's something for you to go.you cannot say to your self that
you still love him if your not happy at all. its all right not to know the answer it will come to you when you least expect it.
if you know your feel unhappy anymore to him don't stock
your self in only one place that you know there's something for you to go.you cannot say to your self that
you still love him if your not happy at all. its all right not to know the answer it will come to you when you least expect it.
Hi Daisy, I'd love to know how you've gone since your post. I have been married for 33 years and before that was going with my husband for 7. Things have not always been great for me either and we've had a couple of breaks. Now he is living away, working for 1/2 the time (shift work) and it seems to have exacerbated the problems we had. He's not on the same page as me anymore, he doesn't like doing a lot of the things I do, and he seems to play with my emotions, making me think it is all MY fault. I've been to a counselor and she said that he might be a passive aggressive, always wanting control. I'm frightened of leaving as I have a 'comfortable' life and don't know how I'd cope on my own. What did you end up doing?
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Copyright & 2006 - 2016 Relationship Talk小时代4里Neil寄给顾里，林萧她们寄贺卡写着I am not happy anymore，后面两句是？_百度知道小时代里的I am not happy anymore什么意思啊？不是翻译！_百度知道I am not happy anymore.翻译成汉语句子是什么意思
I am not happy any more【我不再快乐】I = 我am = be动词的现在式,有点类似“我是xxx”的“是”的意思.not___any more = 不再___happy = 快乐这里的be动词am是现在时.是表示“我”是【以前快乐,现在不快乐了】的意思,并不包含以后的未来,所以确切的说,并不能翻译成“我以后都不会再快乐”（I will not be happy any more) 或者“我永远都不会再快乐”（I will never be happy again）等有隐含以后缺乏快乐的可能性的意思.希望对你有所帮助~还有哪里不懂的话欢迎追问~-dmblbc-
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