Introduction:I have chosen to tell my story that talks about the emotional side of
having a a chronic disease and the feelings of your future being taken
away. Also, the title of this story is an excerpt from the poem “Invictus” by William Earnest HenleyMy Story:We didn’t know I had a chronic disease. I suppose that is the root cause
of the hardest trial that came from having ulcerative colitis. Looking
back in my life I can see symptoms of this disease that manifested
themselves throughout the years, but we never understood it was anything
big. As a child I was sick often. It seemed I constantly had a
cold, a sore throat, or other things. It wasn’t natural for a child to
be sick this often and my parents began to believe that I was just
faking. So when the disease really took hold of my body, my life, and
the symptoms flared up to the extreme… my parents didn’t understand
anything was wrong and wanted me to continue my life as normal. That
was the hardest thing about everything. I felt that I could only have
their love if I was the energetic, bubbly girl I have been all my life.
They could only love me if I was going to school and having a job. I
wanted their love so badly and made myself sicker because I tried to
those things. But how could I when I was physically incapable? I
couldn’t. I had to quit school. I had to quit working. I fell into a
depression and hated my body. I hated that my body was keeping my
parents from loving me. I hated that I couldn’t run anymore. I hated I
couldn’t play. I hated that I couldn’t eat. I hated I couldn’t sit up
without overwhelming dizziness. Why was my body doing this to me??!! I
have tried all my lif to feed it with healthy foods
and build it with regular exercise. So why on earth was this happening
to me?! It isn’t fair! I felt so alone. Most of the time no one was
with me at my doctor appointments. I had to go through test after test,
procedure after procedure, and be referred to specialist after
specialist. I was alone when I found out that I had ulcerative colitis.
There was no one to comfort me or to tell me that despite this set-back,
I am loved and I can have a beautiful life. No one was there to simply
give me a hug. As I write this, tears come to my eyes and there is a
heaviness in my heart as I remember the feelings of abandonment and
hurt. However, that is not the end of my story. In fact, I don’t know
what the end is, yet, but I do know one thing: I get to choose. William Earnest Henley penned a marvelous poem that helps me. My
favorite part of “Invictus” is the ending which states, “I am th I am the captain of my soul.” I have learned that to be
true. I choose who I am. I am not ulcerative colitis. I am not a poor
girl who lets circumstances get the best of her. I am Anna. I am happy. I
am joy. I am strength. I am courage. Now I have learned that my
parents loved me all along, and just wanted me to be the best I can be.
By expressing their disdain at my actions of suddenly always being in
bed and depressed and “acting” in pain they hoped to motivate me to be
the person they felt I should be. They now understand I was doing my
best and trying my hardest under the circumstances. However, good came
from this experience. It taught me that I have to be strong and do what
is best, even when others you care about don’t understand. I have
also learned to be grateful for the body I have. Yes, there are things
about it that don’t work correctly, but there are things about it that
do work! I am so grateful for my eyes to see, my ears to hear, my
fingers to touch. With all these experiences I had some choices to
make. Choices that I have actually made many times and likely will again
in the future. I could choose to let my past dictate my future. I could
choose to stay hurt. I could let ulcerative colitis rule my life. I
could choose to continue to hate my body. No! I choose to let the
past go and make the best of my future. I choose to forgive. I choose to
be happy. I choose to take what I have learned and use it to build my
life and strengthen my future. Yes, there are still days when I
wallow in self-pity. Yes, there are still days when I want to quit. But
at these times I pick myself back up and try again. I am t I am the captain of my soul. I am Anna.
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