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|With Instructables you can share what you make with the world, and tap into an ever-growing community of creative experts.Intro: How to Have a Lucid DreamLucid dreaming allows you to have complete control over the events that occur in your dreams. You are able to experience anything you can imagine without any consequence. ...
Step 1: Dream JournalsThe first thing you should do when learning how to lucid dream is to keep a dream journal. A dream journal is just a notebook that you can ...
Step 2: Reality ChecksReality checks are the most important part of lucid dreaming, and you'll need to get into the habit of doing them&throughout the day. Reality checks are just like ...
Step 3: Reentering a DreamOnce you're adequate at remembering your dreams, and have developed a habit of reality checking, a lucid dream may occur without any extra help. This step is simply ...
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Step 5: More AdviceBefore you go to sleep, try to create an idea of what you want to do and see if you can influence your dream. The more you practice, ...
Lucid dreaming allows you to have complete control over the events that occur in your dreams. You are able to experience anything you can imagine without any consequence. Since emotions and everyday, logical thinking are more relaxed and less interfering in dreams, lucid dreaming can even serve as an aid in overcoming mental blocks. Think beyond these words and really take in how phenomenal it is that you have the option to explore your mind to such a depth that you are able to create a universe that is completely autonomous. The imagined visions in lucid dreams are not hazy, distant landscapes in which you have to constantly give your attention. They are vivid scenes that can feel exactly like the lucid world. & (Thanks to the people on deviantART and People of the Internet for the pictures) The following is a great tip from AFuriousPenguin: A few more tips for Lucid Dreaming that i have found to work quite well: When you want something to happen in your dream, sometimes it wont just happen JUST because your thinking about it. In my first lucid dream, i tried to start off with something simple and change the grass around me blue instead of green, and nothing happened. I found that by imagining in my head what that same grass would look like if it had already been blue turned all the grass blue immediately. So give that a shot if you have troubles creating your scenario. Alternate reality check: Wear an analog watch (with hour/minute hands) and make a habit of checking the time multiple times each day. Check it, and then double check it to make sure it is still the same time. In your dreams, not only do things like text change as alternativeinsanity mentioned, but you will also have no concept of time passage. You watch may say 3:15, but then say 12:45 when you double check it. bingo :)
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The first thing you should do when learning how to lucid dream is to keep a dream journal. A dream journal is just a notebook that you can use to write down any recollection of a previous night's dream. Along with text, you may want to draw pictures of what happened in your dream to help stimulate your memory. Recalling a dream will eventually feel as if you're remembering any other moment in your life, and will make it easier to find nightly patterns and discover your personal dream habits. Dream journals can also be tons of fun to reread, whether it's simply to revisit some ridiculous scenario or to go back and piece together what made your dream of a particular event at a time. The following is a small portion from the end of one of my dreams. The following sentence is a word-for-word quote spoken by an unseen person who was narrating. &Richard, which usually meant Richard III, which was followed by the swarm of bees that my mother refused to believe weren&t real even though she wound up in the hospital last time.&&
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Improve Dream Recall:
Nightmares ?
Bad Dreams, or Recurring Dreams ?
Lucky You!
Drawing by Catherine MacIntyre
The above title may seem odd, if not a complete contradiction. Why
would anyone suggest that nightmares or anxiety dreams might be
helpful? If you're in the half of the population that has experienced
an anxiety dream or nightmare within the last month, then this may
even be what you're wishing you could get rid of, right? Some people
who had nightmares or recurring dreams early on in life even manage
to block their dream recall entirely in order to stop being upset
by such experiences. This unfortunate view of "bad" dreams as things
to avoid is precisely the reason for the above title and for this
article. An avoidance or denial approach is much like putting a
Band-Aid on a car's blinking oil light because the light seems annoying.
Of course, fifty or a hundred miles later, it would be greatly preferable
to have understood the warning. Obviously, it's even better not
to have the light blinking, but if it does, then it's important
to do something about it since it's there for a good reason. One
certainly wouldn't be very wise to disable it. Though perhaps not
obvious, the simple fact is that most nightmares and almost all
recurring dreams are similarly trying to provide an extremely valuable
service to the dreamer. If we block them, we are likely missing
the if we remember but ignore them, we may
well be missing the vital message that they are trying to bring
us about our life.
Almost everyone has experienced one or more dreams that contain
anxiety or outright fear. For some, unpleasant dreams or nightmares
for others, the content may change while the theme
remains the same, such as scenes of falling, or of being pursued
or attacked, late or unprepared for a presentation or an exam, stuck
in slow motion, unable to move or scream, or naked in public, to
name a few common themes. This type of experience, when unpleasant,
is usually associated with lack of progress by the dreamer to recognize
and solve related conflicts in life.
Though it has been scientifically proven that we all dream every
night, fear of nightmares or other anxieties or misguided beliefs
about dreams and the unconscious can block dream recall. This can
usually be overcome by learning about the useful nature of dreams
and by recognizing that the majority of nightmares, like a bitter
but quite necessary medicine, represent opportunities for personal
healing through much-needed emotional release. They are often indirectly
warning us about current behavior patterns or psychological imbalances
that we need to remedy if we don?t want such unpleasant dreams to
repeat, or worsen. Sometimes, such imbalances or patterns resolve
themselves as the dream percolates into waking thought and we unknowingly
respond and make adjustments in our life. But if we block, deny
or ignore such messages from the subconscious for too long, then
it usually speaks ?louder? to get our attention often by bringing
related events, which I call daymares, into our waking hours. These
daymares show up as sickness, accidents, relationship difficulties
or other unfortunate personal circumstances that force us outright
to deal with the issue at hand. Interestingly enough, such events
often have repeating themes as well, such as recurring relationship
patterns, for example.
Psychologist Ernest Rossi has put forth that one important function
of dreaming is integration: the combining of separate psychological
structures into a more balanced and comprehensive personality. Renown
psychologist Carl Jung observed that portions of our whole personality
which we knowingly or unknowingly judge become disowned, and are
frequently projected outward in dreams, taking the form of aggressors,
devils, monsters, intimidating animals or natural events (e.g. tidal
waves), and so on. Jung referred to these symbolic figures as "the
shadow". Whether we become aware of such elements of our shadow
through nightmares or daymares, re-accepting these judged and disowned
portions of ourselves is the message and the awaiting gift.
So, we truly are lucky to have such nightmares, since they provide
a natural ?pressure-release? therapy for the psyche, and especially
since they may even provide what amounts to an early cure if we
listen to, make an effort to understand and then act upon the valuable
insight that dreams try to bring us. The goal is still to put an
end to nightmares and recurring dreams, but by evolving them into
more beneficial scenarios, and not by blocking, ignoring or denying
Nightmares
Fortunately, there exist
which have shown to be very effective. Some of the most useful
techniques include dream rehearsal, dream lucidity, guided imagery
and mainstream therapies such as gestalt, psychosynthesis, focusing,
or other such methods.
One approach is lucid dreaming where one recognizes
during a dream that one is dreaming, hence gaining a degree of conscious
control. This approach is demonstrated by this woman?s dream:
"After many recurring nightmares where I'm pursued by some
terrifying figure, I learned of lucid dreaming and had the following
dream: 'I'm in a frantic car chase with the pursuer right behind
me. Swerving into a parking lot, I bolt out of the car and run with
him hot on my heels. Suddenly, the scene seems familiar and I realize
that I'm dreaming, though the lot and trees still seem more real
than ever. Drawing upon every ounce of courage that I have, I swirl
to face my pursuer, repeating to myself that it's only a dream.
Still afraid, I scream at him, "You can't hurt me!" He stops, looking
surprised. For the first time I see his beautiful, loving eyes.
"Hurt You?" he says. "I don't want to hurt you. I've been running
after you all this time to tell you that I love you!" With that,
he holds out his hands, and as I touch them, he dissolves into me.
I awake filled with energy, feeling great for days.' Not only did
the nightmare never return, but more importantly, I now find myself
much better at facing unpleasant situations at work and in my personal
life. Following what I learned in the dream, I'm much better at
standing my ground and expressing my feelings when needed and appropriate,
whereas before I would usually avoid or run from such situations."
(M.R., San Jose, CA)
Suggestions
for Common Nightmares and Recurring Dreams
It has been extensively demonstrated that various nightmare and
recurring dream themes are quite universal, even cross-culturally,
and that such situations can be transformed into positive and even
pleasant experiences. The key to such evolution is a change of perspective,
often accompanied by a new emotional response to the situation such
as taking on an attitude of acceptance, curiosity and exploration
to replace the existing reaction of fear or judgment (as in the
dream example above). When these types of dream are connected with
deep traumatic waking events, such as abuse, war, death, etc. the
evolution of the dream into a more positive form may understandably
take longer and require more waking attention and focus.
Though there is no unerring rule as to what any given dream might
be about, a good rule of thumb is to re-experience the feeling of
the dream and find out where this same feeling shows up in our waking
life (often alluded to by the setting of the dream, though perhaps
figuratively). This is the rule of associative logic - the dream
associates to our life, and sometimes to our past, by a specific
I have no intention of providing an absolute dream dictionary (since
dreamers and their experiences relating to specific symbols are
so individual) and have no illusions about prescribing instantaneous
solutions or cures, however a great number of people have gotten
a lot of help and insight by learning about universal nightmare
and anxiety dream themes which they are also experiencing. Here
are some of the most common themes (with positive outcome examples
for each scenario) and suggestions about what the dreamer might
look at in waking life:
· chase or attack: The pursuer usually
represents a fearful or disliked aspect
of our shadow, and hence an exaggerated version of a denied or inhibited
portion of our own personality that would benefit us if integrated
and appropriately expressed. (ideal outcome: standing our ground,
facing and dialoguing with our pursuer, and eventually, acceptance
and embrace)
· falling dream:
Am I feeling heavy, unsupported, out of control, worried about
something? How can I feel freer, lighter? Also: do I need to be
more grounded? (ideal outcome: flying or floating freely, landing safely if we choose)
· car out of control: Is life too hectic, out of control? How could
I slow down, act more peacefully and "enjoy the ride"? Is there an important choice (i.e. intersection or turn) coming soon in my
life where I need to slow down in order to turn safely in the wisest direction (ideal outcome:
driving well & within speed limits, walking, bicycling, or rollerblading peacefully, taking more quiet time to clearly
contemplate important upcoming choices so that I don't go off track or crash)
· unprepared or late for an exam: Am I feeling unprepared
for some upcoming event or deadline, quite possibly at work? Unconfident about my performance? Am I
worrying needlessly or do I actually need more preparation in order
to feel confident and do a good job? (ideal outcome: feeling assured
about oneself, performing well, making sure to schedule wisely in order to peacefully meet a deadline)
· stuck in slow motion, unable to move or make any noise: Where
am I feeling stuck in life, like I?m getting nowhere because worry is paralyzing me or slowing me to a stop, perhaps also where I am unable to
voice my true feelings? What can I do to change it? (ideal outcome:
relaxation and acceptance, and eventually, peaceful, confident action &
self-expression)
· embarrassed to be nude or scantily dressed in public, though
nobody seems
to really notice or mind: Where in life am I feeling unconfident, embarrassed,
unskilled? This type of dream is usually pointing out, by the fact
that the other characters in the dream don?t really notice, that
we are the only one viewing ourself this way, and usually mistakenly
so. (ideal outcome: comfortable with oneself as is, confident)
· personal injury, dismemberment: What part of my life?not usually
the physical body?have I been neglecting, mistreating, forgetting?i.e.
dis-membering as opposed to remembering? (ideal outcome: healing)
· trapped, locked in: Where am I feeling trapped in life? How might
I open myself up to a new perspective, and explore new courses of
action? (ideal outcome: breaking out, exploring new rooms or places)
· drowning, threatening waves, tsunami (tidal waves) or flooding:
Am I blocking, denying or feeling overwhelmed by my emotions?
How might I better acknowledge, accept, and feel these feelings ? feekings which
often include vulnerability? (ideal outcome: swimming, surfing, breathing underwater)
· helpless, abandoned, or crying baby, young daughter/son, monkey, bunny, pet, or small animal:
Have I been taking care of my "inner child"? Is there a creative project or relationship that I have forgotten or abandoned that needs my attention?
Maybe I need to laugh more, play outdoors, express my creativity, be more spontaneous,
or enjoy more personal warmth and intimacy? (ideal outcome: caring
for baby or animal, playing, simply having more fun)
Precognitive
Dreams, Premonitions & Warning Dreams
Though they are generally symbolic of psychological processes,
some dreams and nightmares are intended as guidance or warnings
on a very practical level. For example, if you were to dream about
the brakes failing on your car, it might help to ponder whether
you are figuratively having trouble "slowing yourself down" in
your life, however, it would also be very wise to check the actual
brakes on your automobile in waking life.
Assuredly, not all precognitve dreams are about dire events, though
when they are, such nightmares or anxiety dreams warn of current
behavior trends, courses of action, or decisions which may soon
become detrimental unless we change them, as exemplified in this
dream by Stanford University pioneer sleep researcher Dr. William
years ago I was a heavy cigarette smoker, up to two packs a day.
Then one night I had an exceptionally vivid and realistic dream
in which I had inoperable cancer of the lung. I remember as though
it were yesterday looking at the ominous shadow in my chest X-ray
and realizing that the entire right lung was infiltrated. I experienced
the incredible anguish of knowing my life was soon to end, that
I would never see my children grow up, and that none of this would
ever have happened if I had quit cigarettes when I first learned
of their carcinogenic potential. I will never forget the surprise,
joy, and exquisite relief of waking up. I felt I was reborn. Needless
to say, the experience was sufficient to induce the immediate
cessation of my cigarette habit."
Somehow, dreams have access to information above and beyond the
physical senses, both in terms of geography and time. Exactly
how this is possible is an extremely interesting question, both
for the individual who has such experiences, and, in general,
for the scientific community?where a solely objective investigative
approach often misses a lot of valuable clues about the nature
of reality, especially when it comes to the realm of subjective
experiences such as dreams. My view is that the state of consciousness
from where our dream experiences arise is not the same as the
"normal" physical waking state (which varies a great deal also),
and so perceptions which come to us from such a state (and similarly
with meditation, and even day-dreaming and deep states of creativity)
arise from a framework beyond our physical one, and hence come
from outside our normal framework of time and space. Therefore,
it is actually no great surprise and even somewhat common (especially
with dreams) that we can sense, through a faculty other than the
five physical senses, information which, within the physical world
is either ahead or long past in terms of time, unavailable to
us in terms of physical location or geography, or unknown to us
though others in our life are aware of such information.
Bishop Joseph Lanyl dreamed of the assassination of the arch-duke
of Austria, Fran?ois-Ferdinand de Habsbourg. In vain, he tried
to reach the arch-duke to warn him of the assassination which
occurred June 28, 1914 in Sarajevo ? the event that triggered
the first world war.
few days before his assassination, American President Abraham
Lincoln, who was very attentive to his dreams, dreamt of his own
corpse laid out in a room in the white house. Martin Luther King
also seems to have had a precognitive dream about his death a
few months before his assassination.
day before the Titanic's demise, a woman on the infamous ship
dreamt of the horrible event that was to occur the next day. She
told her husband, who scoffed at her worries and ignored her pleas.
However, the dream so affected her that she secretly prepared
herself the night before and had all her children sleep in their
warm clothes in order to be ready at a moment's notice. During
the night, when the ship struck the iceberg, she and her children
managed to escape and be rescued. Her husband, sadly, went down
with the ship.
That it is possible to know about future events not only courts
the disbelief of skeptics, but also often scares people who have
such precognitive dreams. Such experiences are actually somewhat
common, so people's apprehension is rather unfortunate, because
the cultivation of such dreams can really be a beneficial skill,
much like a natural talent in music or writing or dance, and can
truly become a helpful gift developed both for the benefit of
the dreamer and for those around him or her, as shown by this
dreamer's premonition:
had a dream where my father had blood pouring out of an eye from
an accident involving the machine he was working with, and I knew
he had lost his eye. Upon awakening, I immediately phoned my parents
and asked my father what he was planning that day. He said he
was going to work in his workshop with his drill and circular
saw. Hearing this, I strongly urged him and eventually got him
to promise to wear safety goggles while he was working. Then I
spoke to my mother, told her the dream, and convinced her to keep
a close eye on Dad. That night, Dad phoned in disbelief to tell
me that a piece of wood had flown off the saw right at his eye
and shattered the safety glasses. He was very grateful and admitted
to me that it was truly a miracle that his eye was untouched."
(S.B. Montreal, Qc)
So instead of wishing you sweet dreams, which you?ve heard many
times before, I will go one step further, with your greatest fulfillment
in mind, and wish you truly pleasant nightmares.
Dream & Nightmare Resolution Exercise:
Re-scripting a dream
Select a nightmare or upsetting dream which you?ve recently had
(especially if it happened this morning!) and either from the
recurring dream suggestions above or on your own, re-design a
different ending to the dream. Choose something which leaves you
feeling empowered, free and confident, and great about the new
scenario, instead of the way you felt during or after the actual
dream. Before lying down to fall asleep tonight, sit in a comfortable
position and relax your body and mind completely for a couple
minutes. It may help you to alternately tense and relax different
parts of your body, and witness instead of concentrate upon any
thoughts which cross your mind. Let it all go until tomorrow.
Then, once you?re calm and quiet, mentally visualize or remember
the dream you?ve selected for this exercise, running through as
though you were watching a video, except at the point where things
begin to turn unpleasant, replace the old ending with the new
empowering one you created earlier, and imagine it as vividly
as you can, "making it up" as you go if you need to. Make it a
special point to experience the new feelings of confidence, freedom
and empowerment that your new ending gives you. Then give yourself
the clear suggestion that not only are these new thought patterns
now spreading into your waking life, but also that tonight or
some time soon you may have just such a dream, which includes
the new, more fulfilling ending. You may even suggest to yourself
that you will recognize the dream as a dream, while it?s happening,
in which case you can consciously direct it as you feel appropriate
towards a more uplifting outcome.
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